Tuesday, June 28, 2011

DUDE! Where's My Uterus? Today's the day!

Well today is the day!  We are hoping the tumors are just Fibroids.  The typical chance that the tumors will be malignant is one in one thousand, but having had Hodgkin's Lymphoma 6 years ago and the damage done to my immune system makes me immunocompromised, so my odds are a little higher.  If the tumors do turn out to be Leiomyosarcoma, then having the hysterectomy is the best way to remove all the present tumors.  Besides, I'm not using my uterus for anything.  It's just sitting there gathering dust and cobwebs!

Of course, if for some reason the odds do run against me, we will have to postpone the move so I can keep my same Oncologist and keep Jerry's current health insurance that is remarkable.  My drugs alone were $250k in 2004 and our out of pocket costs were only $4k for all my visits, drugs, procedures, surgeries, etc...


Having any medical procedure surgery can be stressful and taxing.  After having multiple surgeries, chemotherapy treatments and countless procedures, I've learned through the years that having a sense of humor about everything that life dishes up is truly the best medicine


Saturday, June 25, 2011

Excerpts from a Dog's Diary...


8:00 am - Dog food! My favorite thing!
9:30 am - A car ride! My favorite thing!
9:40 am - A walk in the park! My favorite thing!
10:30 am - Got rubbed and petted! My favorite thing!
12:00 PM - Lunch! My favorite thing!
1:00 PM - Played in the yard! My favorite thing!
3:00 PM - Wagged my tail! My favorite thing!
5:00 PM - Milk bones! My favorite thing!
7:00 PM - Got to play ball! My favorite thing!
8:00 PM - Wow! Watched TV with the people! My favorite thing!
11:00 PM - Sleeping on the bed! My favorite thing!

Excerpts from a Cat's Diary...


Day 983 of my captivity.
My captors continue to taunt me with bizarre little dangling objects.

They dine lavishly on fresh meat, while the other inmates and I are fed hash or some sort of dry nuggets. Although I make my contempt for the rations perfectly clear, I nevertheless must eat something in order to keep up my strength.

The only thing that keeps me going is my dream of escape. In an attempt to disgust them, I once again vomit on the carpet.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Overhead Bin - The 5 smartest vacation photos you've never taken

'Return to owner'Take a photo of a sign you make that says "This camera belongs to ..." and lists your name, contact information, and (perhaps) the promise of a reward. Set this image to "read-only" to make it difficult to erase. Keep it as the first picture on your memory card. If strangers find your lost camera and start looking at its photos, they'll know it belongs to you.

'Where was that again?'Snap the location of your parked car, or take a picture of your hotel door with the room number on it. At the end of your jetlagged day, whether you're in an Orlando parking garage or Las Vegas resort, you'll appreciate having the photo to remind you of where you need to go.

'Darn it. I wish I could print out this webpage'Let's say you're using your hotel's computer to look up some information, such as a map for a museum's location, but you don't have access to a printer — or maybe don't want to pay a silly printing charge. Simply take a photo of the screen, and then use your camera's built-in LCD screen to view it as you walk.

Overhead Bin - The 5 smartest vacation photos you've never taken

Things You CAN'T Do When You're NOT a Dog



Laughed my ass off at this one!

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Veggie Chips - YUMMY!!!

Veggie Chips (No Salt Added) - Fruit & Veggie Chips - Snacks - NutsOnline
These are one of my favorite snacks! They are so yummy! This veggie chip assortment includes sweet potato, squash, carrot, green bean, and taro.   They have salted and unsalted variety and you can get my favorite, the green beans, seperately.

I used to buy them all the time to munch on at work and everyone made fun of me for eating Veggie Chips. That is until they tried them! Then I had to hide them.

Eventually I stopped buying them because at $7.00/lb, they are not cheap to feed an office that size (40+ people).

I am buying them again now since I only have to share with Jerry (maybe!).  I can't wait until they get here!

The site http://www.nutsonline.com/ also has an awesome selection of nuts, dried fruit, dried veggies, trail mixes, coffee/tea and even freeze dried fruits and veggies.  They have some delicious stuff!

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends

What I'm reading now:
When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life

Extensive research went into this detailed study of troubled mother-daughter relationships and how these relationships can be improved, usually through the efforts of the daughter. Dysfunctional parents usually raise dysfunctional children who pass the same behavior on to their children unless a conscientious effort, often with the help of therapy, is made to break the chain. Practical advice on how to come to terms with, and often improve, unhealthy mother-daughter bonds is offered through excerpts from many interviews and quotes from experts.


*UPDATE*
I just started this book today and it is a quick read, not technical.  This book had me hooked during the intro. By the end of Chapter 3, I had laughed, went "Ah-Ha", and shook my ponytail from side to side and up and down. I'm heading into Part 2 (Chpt 4-9) but so far recommend this to anyone with a "strained" or as in my case, non-existent, relationship with their mothers.

Picking your parents: Adult adoption creates new bond

After much thought and consideration (about 5 minutes of laughing), meet my new parents (who must have been drunk when they agreed).  Now we just have to iron out custody and support!

Congrats Gary & Monica!


In all seriousness, it is an interesting article.

Napoleon vs Napoleon - Epic Rap Battles of History






YouTube - Napoleon vs Napoleon. Epic Rap Battles of History #9

Monday, June 20, 2011

Female Dictionary


FEMALE DICTIONARY - Words Women Use

1.) FINE: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right, and you need to shut up.

2.) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means half an hour. Don't be mad about this, it is just the same 5 minutes you use when it's your turn to help do things around the house.

3.) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine (see #1).

4.) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5.) Loud Sigh: This is not actually a word but a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)

Sunday, June 19, 2011

In honor of Father's Day...


I would like to wish my amazing husband Jerry a Happy, Wonderful Father's Day on behalf of our kids, Flapjack, Cupid, Romeo and Biscuit!  Yes our kids all have fur, but their daddy goes out of his way for them all the time.

The following is an excerpt from the draft of the 'book' I'm working on that I felt was appropriate for this day even though I have not finished writing my book yet.

"My last contact with my father was in July 2004. 

The Importance of the Father/Daughter Relationship | healinghearts-families.com

Father's often discount the importance of their relationships with their daughters. It is common for father's to believe that the mother is the most influential role, when really, father's have an equally important role in their daughters lives. Mothers are important, but father's offer specific things to their young daughters that mothers cannot provide.
Stats About Daddy's Girl
·         Girls with a father figure have higher self-esteem, and are more likely to get along with people and attend higher education.
·         Girls with fathers who are actively involved in their life show higher English and math skills, as well as having a higher IQ.
·         Girls with active dads tend to be more determined, more successful in school, more self-nurturing, more independent, and are less likely to have abusive relationships.
·         Dad's that are loving tend to have daughters that are less likely to try drugs, and less likely to be truant or delinquent.
·         When a father support his daughter playing sports, he is helping her lesson the pressures of sex roles, and helping to promote her social independence.
Dad's Are Important Too
It has been said for far to long that dad's "take a backseat" to moms in the relationships with their daughters. If this is true, then daughter's are suffering because of it.
Father's often focus more time on their relationship with their sons because they may believe that mom will take care of their daughter's needs. Sometimes dad's don't realize how important they are to their growing young ladies, and if they did, it may shock them.
Father's are very important role models for their daughters, especially in the puberty and teen years. A father is the first male that a girl comes to intimately know, and he can set the stage for how his daughter interacts in future relationships, especially with men.
If her father is a loving, supportive, encouraging, protective, honorable husband and father, his daughter will seek out relationships that mimic these positive qualities in other men. Father's have this unique ability to inspire their daughter's, and daughter's give their father power like no other male in their life.
Benefits of the Father/Daughter Connection

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Why I Still Sleep With A Teddy Bear....

This was just too adorable not to share.  I wish I still had my white teddy bear...

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Well, We Cut the Cord...Cable TV Gone


One more wasted payment every  month gone!  It was a complete unnecessary luxury item and we spend more time on our computers with the TV just as background noise.

We finally did it!  We decided to cancel our DirecTV.  We have an AppleTV and we subscribed to Netflix streaming for $7.95/month.  It really makes sense because most of the shows we like to watch have ended and all the shows we currently watch can be either viewed on Netflix or purchased through iTunes.  Even purchasing season passes to our shows on iTumes at $30 a pop is cheaper than $70 a month for basic cable when annualized.

I used to read all the time and even though Jerry bought me a Sony Ereader, that is awesome, I only read at the gym on cardio days.  I hope to change that.  I want to rediscover reading.

Monday, June 13, 2011

My Sister's Keeper

What I'm reading now:  Amazon.com:  My Sister's Keeper

This riveting suspense thriller explores the special bond between a brother and sister when Richard Baimbridge rushes back to his coastal hometown of Wilmington, NC, to assist with his sister's recovery after she's brutally attacked and crippled investigating the rape of a 13-year-old. Coming face to face with his tormented past and a dark family secret, he fights to stay above the flood of childhood trauma and, serving as his sister's legs, is drawn into the dark underside of this quiet coastal community where he, himself, becomes the primary suspect in the murders of Wilmington's young girls.

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Just Fabulous Monthly Shoe, Handbag & Sunglasess Club

Click title above or link below to go to website.

I just discovered JustFabulous! Members receive monthly shoe, sunglass and handbag selections based on their personal style, and the items are handpicked for them by their own style expert. It's like having a personal shopper and celebrity stylist in one!

Every item is only $39.95 with free shipping & dust bag.  If you don't like that months selections, simply click the "Skip This Month" button.  You can also return any item within 30 days.

If you are interested in joining, membership is free, click on this link to help me earn a free item and to get 50% off your first purchase  http://www.justfab.com/invite/1169050/

I just received my first bag, Paso Doble.  It is very soft and the "leather" has a great texture.  Not to mention it smells wonderful!  It is the perfect size for toting around my iPad while still maintaing the usefullness of a handbag and looking very professional.  It was styled after the Hermes Rouge Red Garrance Birkin Bag .

 To see more images of this bag Paso Doble Red Handbag

Bag

Childhood Pictures

I am a bit sad that I only have a handful of pictures from my childhood.  There are a lot of pictures from the years Woburn-Worcester but my mom has them all.  I offered in 2007 to pay to have all the pictures she has of all the kids scanned to DVD and order multiple copies so everyone could have all the pictures in professional quality and she agreed, but then refused to send them. 

I honestly don't know why she insists on keeping at least my class pictures from elementary boxed up in storage when they would bring me happiness, but that's probably exactly why she won't send them to me. 

I guess if she dies before me, I might get them at that time, but with my health, she might be around longer than I am.

Advice for Chemotherapy & Cancer Patients Wanting to have Children

This advice is mainly for women as that is the point of view I am coming from.

I completed my cycle of ABVD in Jan 2005.  Prior to adopting ABVD protocols for treating Hodgkin's Disease the standard treatment was MOPP.  While MOPP was an effective treatment, it was 100% effective in causing sterility in those patients receiving it.

With the introduction of the ABVD protocol, the chances of becoming sterile as a result from treatment went from guaranteed, to uncommon. 

Friday, June 10, 2011

Sesame Street has gone "Street"

Things have certainly got a lot tougher on Sesame Street since I was a kid!


Here are some other gaffes by news outlets:

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Having a rough month...

Definately can't wait for the brighter days that I hope are ahead.  Jerry, Flapjack and I are all having procedures this month and I am so overwhelmed it is difficult to get out of bed. 

Flapjack was diagnosed with a Stage 4 heart murmur and has been on Enalapril for 2 weeks and double dose antibiotics for one week to prepare for his skin biopsy on a very troublesome spot on his stomach that

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Happy & Sad Day with our Nieces

Today is both a happy and sad day.  I am am extremely happy that we got to go to MacArthur Park to see Bonnie and Courtney today.  We haven't seen them since Jan 2010 so it will be nice.  I am also very sad because it will more than likely be the last time Jerry & I get to see our nieces until their High School Graduation.  They have gotten so tall!  They are very skinny and have legs that go on forever.  I have a feeling in a few years there are going to be some boy drama!  If they keep growing like this they are going to reach supermodel heights!

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Just Some Cute Tiny Animals

Just a little something to put a smile on your face. Who can't smile at cute tiny little animals!

Friday, June 3, 2011

Only the 3rd and June just keeps throwing the punches...

Went to the Doctor this morning because I was interested in the NovaSure procedure and upon completion of an ultrasound, he found 2 tumors on my uterus. 

So now I have to have a hysterectomy in the next few weeks.  The hardest part is waiting for the biopsy after the hysterectomy to see if I have cancer again or if the tumors are benign.  Fun!  At least I know what the pressure I've been feeling finally is.  When my uterus swells the tumor is putting pressure on my bladder causing the uncomfortable, pressure, bloaty feeling.

An intersting discovery during the ultrasound, chemo drastically shrank my left ovary and it just about killed my right ovary to the point the doctor could barely find it, so menopause is probably not far away, though it's hard to know exactly how long. 

To Rent or Buy in Richmond!!! We Can't Decide, HELP!!

So our plan was to rent in Richmond for a year to feel it out.  Our realtor has an adorable cottagethat I fell in LOVE with and at $156k is within our price range (My Cottage), BUT we don't feel comfortable taking that big of a chunk out of our savings especially since we don't know how long it will take for both of us to find employment.  So we relegated our selves to renting significantly below our 2 income means and pad the kitty for a year.

Then today Jerry was posing some hypotheticals so I looked around a little and found a house I liked that would be less that renting that took a much smaller bite out of our savings and we got approved for a 15 yr @3.75% or a 30 yr @4.75%.  Cheaper than rent house

House we're considering
 Now the dilemma. 

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Bumpy start for June

59 days and counting until moving day. 

Flapjack, Summer 2002
Stress is increasing, but we had a big stumble yesterday.  Over the weekend I noticed a red spot with an irregular shape and bumpy texture on Flapjack's tummy.  Yesterday I took him to see the vet and it turns out he has a Stage 4 heart murmur and his lymph nodes are all swollen from his neck to his tail.  Sounds so familiar.  It was only 7 years ago all of my Lymph Nodes were swollen.

Flapjack 2011






We started him on an ACE inhibitor called, Enalapril.  Hopefully that will help the heart murmur enough that he can be given anesthesia to biopsy the lymph nodes. 

Does This Commercial Remind You of Your Latest Trip to the Store?

This commercial had me laughing my head off!  It is a perfect documentary on why you shouldn't have kids!

Can you guess what this is a commercial for before the end?